I have seen a great rise in maternal neglect of new born.
Everyday I get patients relatives complaining about her lack of attention or concentration in taking care of the child.
Here are some reasons for the same -
1. understanding motherhood - mother-hood is a full-time job.
once a mother, you are a mother for life.
one has to understand the complexities about motherhood before she decides to go for it.
2. don't become a mother to save your relationship - if you chose to become a mother, so that your marriage can be saved then you just did the greatest mistake of all.
remember - A child puts more emotional strain on you and your relationship.
you are not able to give your husband enough time, and taking care of the child is learning process.
3. Post-partum depression - hormonal imbalance during pregnancy makes you insecure. This leads to medical depression. You need to take treatment for this.
4. Workoholic - workoholic woman have a very high need to get back to work. They are constantly thinking about the same, and neglect the child.
You need to take a 6months break after pregnancy so that the bond of love between you and your child is long lasting.
- Dr.Mayuri Assudani
(Gynaecologsit and Infertility Consultant)
Everyday I get patients relatives complaining about her lack of attention or concentration in taking care of the child.
Here are some reasons for the same -
1. understanding motherhood - mother-hood is a full-time job.
once a mother, you are a mother for life.
one has to understand the complexities about motherhood before she decides to go for it.
2. don't become a mother to save your relationship - if you chose to become a mother, so that your marriage can be saved then you just did the greatest mistake of all.
remember - A child puts more emotional strain on you and your relationship.
you are not able to give your husband enough time, and taking care of the child is learning process.
3. Post-partum depression - hormonal imbalance during pregnancy makes you insecure. This leads to medical depression. You need to take treatment for this.
4. Workoholic - workoholic woman have a very high need to get back to work. They are constantly thinking about the same, and neglect the child.
You need to take a 6months break after pregnancy so that the bond of love between you and your child is long lasting.
- Dr.Mayuri Assudani
(Gynaecologsit and Infertility Consultant)
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